Maybe not too complicated to understand

[Michael Mc C]

She just called and told me that she is going to go see him in 2 weeks. He can't come up here because he would have to bring his 4 year old son and get a hotel. Instead she's going to drive the 8 hours there to spend the weekend.

She'll leave after picking the kids up on Friday and probably get there around midnight.

Making me sick thinking about it. Especially how matter of fact she is about the whole thing. She called because she didn't want to be around in case I "blew up" (nice...)

My side of the conversation consisted of finding out when she was leaving and when she was coming back. I really had no desire to continue the discussion.

I can't imagine wanting her back after this happens. I've told her but really, that does not matter to her. She said it's a risk she has to take.