Hey I'm one of these people and I totally understand the thought process. It's the reason why nice guys gets nowhere and we go crying to Dr. Phil. At least the SOB on the Harley with stubble, 23 tattos per square inch, shaved head or long hair, and 10 girlfriends is more upfront and you know there is a dark side. (The Bad Guy still is a wennie until he enlists though)
Examples if you are too lazy to click on the link or if you allow me to assist you and you become dependent on my posts.
* Keep people in a dependency relationship with you.
* Require that everyone you care for must conform to your set of rules and norms about how they are to conduct their lives.
* On the surface "look good'' and proper but in reality are a subtle way of manipulating others to keep them under your control.
* You exercise on others to prevent unwanted behaviors or disasters or to clean up and provide damage control after a problem has erupted.
* Make you valuable to others who need your assistance, rescuing and help and therefore anoint you to be in a ``powerful'' position to control, dictate, or direct their future actions. *********************
On Bended knee cause I got kicked in the gonads
You pick up the tab while I hit on the waitress. I luv ya babe. No get off my Harley.
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin
