I need support

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I ended up not feeling well with headaches most of the weekend. He came over Sat. and did the dishes for me from Thanksgiving - he said since he didn't help with dinner. I only wish he would do it for doing it but can't have everything. I did suggest that the kids stay since he had to work but he said he would just bring them over in the morning. I thought it was dumb. Last night he had me bring them to him. He said he saved me a trip one day last week so I should reciprocate. I did, though I didn't want to. I asked him put away the fall/halloween stuff in the attic which I always want to do on Thanksgiving weekend and he NEVER does. I hate having to rely on him. He said he will do it, just not then. Then he told me HE will get the tree. That is the only thing I am decorating, he got that hint and didn't say anything. But I am putting the tree where I always want it not where he always puts it.