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[cagzmom]

Lin thank you.

The mediation is scheduled for a couple of reasons. In the beginning i had him sign a seperation agreement and it was notorized..legal and binding. At the time he payed me what i needed alaways on HIS terms..but he paid. It was a LARGE sum..and at the time I was only working part time, plus he had left me with all the debt etc. He paid rent - that was it...

Since so much has changed. In June he attempted suicide- and then lost his job the day he came back to work...they let him go stating that he was under to much pressure etc etc and anyway he didn't have an income..so the monies to me went down in half. AFTER his "return" in August I had gone to my lawyer and had the seperation papers changed - lowered actually. He was going to sign...but with the hosue issues etc. his mom got him a lawyer and his lawyer said THIS IS OUTRAGEOUS....so since then (this was September) H has varried month by month on what he gives me..

So..in short mediation was scheduled to argue with our lawyers about the seperation papers. I already am "legally seperated" and in the state of NC it takes a year - after that it is just moving paper work (I guess)...