I don't think the question is bullstuff at all. My take on this is...why doesn't he desire me sexually? Is there a medical/mental condition? If so, then for me...if everything else in the relationship is enough for me to believe he REALLY loved me with everything he had...then yes, I could accept life without sex. It wouldn't be easy, but I could reconcile that...there would be a legitimate reason it wasn't ME that could help me accept that and therefore avoid the huge blow to my ego.
However, If the man were physically/mentally well-adjusted etc...then it is so much more difficult to wrestle with the lack of sexual desire. Then to be quite frank, I don't think I could stay in a marriage without sex. When we marry we do generally do it for better/worse, but it's an assumption we make as well that we will not be celibate in our marriages...we save ourselves for our spouse alone.
I'm also answering that question as a woman with a healthy sex drive. If I was still an LD woman (as I used to be), I think it would bother me much less...heck back then I might have even been glad of it to some extent, even though my female ego would still want compliments etc from him about my appearance...to know he found me attractive.
