Who's to say you cant be her ideal person? Sure, theres been lots of damage that already taken place, but its never too late to at least try.

Whats so different about her bf than you?

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07