Reelin' in the Years

[Hurtin4certain]

Hey Mark... I read somewhere that at the base of most anger is pain. She's lashing out because deep down she is hurt for some reason. Maybe she's hurt that you have let go and refuse to play her games???

When my W left me a few years ago and initiated a D, she was extremely cruel. In actuality, she was a broken woman.

Have you ever considered having a genuine heart to heart with her? That might fly in the face of DB, but what have you got to lose at this point? Tell her you love her and that you want more than anything to have your family whole again(even if you only feel 50/50 about it).

I get the feeling she is looking for you to reach out to her... I certainly understand if you dont think you can do that at this point but, somethings gotta give. Maybe its your marriage or your pride.