Jar...sorry to hear that. That kind of stuff creates havoc for me. Im impressed at how well you handle it, Im hoping I can get that kind of confidence back.
Sorry your D is sick but on the other hand, it might keep W busy with her and she wont be able to spend quality time with OM.
Have you ever considered going dark for awhile to shake things up? Be unavailable for a few days and see how she reacts, dont pick up your phone, dont call her.
When you see her in the morning when you takes the D's to school, open up your cell and act like you're on this really important phone call and cant speak to W because you have to go. I bet you $5 she says something about it. Give her the notion that you're getting tired of her shenanigans and that you're moving on and busy in your life.
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07