Planning to S

[SuperDad]

Cliffy,
It seems like we are in similar places:

- WAW still not willing/able to be the person we deserve.
- LBH not sure he wants WAW back.
- Still living together.
- LBH ready to move on with his life.
- Kids who we love are involved which makes things perfectly complicated.
- WAW firmly planted on the fence (not filing and not giving up OM).

I wish I had the key to moving past this place smoothly and with minimal pain on all parties involved, but I am starting to think that a friend of mine has it right. He says, "it's like a bandage, just pull it off quick and get it over with."

This is based on his experience with a WAW, now his ex-W. His kids are now in HS/college. He ended up with custody after ex couldn't deal with them.

Starting to look like a better and better plan!

Anyway, as always, search for the Path with Heart.

SD