B,
Nothing like the stress to melt away the baby weight! Unfortunately I started to lose it while I was still pregnant since H dropped bomb at 8 mths. Good news I'm already back to my pre-pregnancy weight after only 5 wks...now my goal is 10 more lbs to get back to pre-first pregnancy weight!

Anyway...I took my rings off and threw them at H when he dropped the bomb and told me he was in love with OW. Haven't put them on since. I HATE not wearing them, but I wouldn't feel right wearing them right now anyway. My H is so adamant that it is over I'm sure it would push him even further away if I was to wear them anyway.
If you want to wear it...wear it. I say good for you!!
Has she ever said anything to you about the fact that you're still wearing it?
J~


M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out