B, Nothing like the stress to melt away the baby weight! Unfortunately I started to lose it while I was still pregnant since H dropped bomb at 8 mths. Good news I'm already back to my pre-pregnancy weight after only 5 wks...now my goal is 10 more lbs to get back to pre-first pregnancy weight!
Anyway...I took my rings off and threw them at H when he dropped the bomb and told me he was in love with OW. Haven't put them on since. I HATE not wearing them, but I wouldn't feel right wearing them right now anyway. My H is so adamant that it is over I'm sure it would push him even further away if I was to wear them anyway. If you want to wear it...wear it. I say good for you!! Has she ever said anything to you about the fact that you're still wearing it? J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out