Thanks guys... I appreciate your feedback.

I met W to exhange D tonight. I decided I'd dress a little more snazzy than usual. D kept asking me where I was going during the drive there. I responded dont worry about it honey (I know my W will ask).

So we get out of our cars and wife doesnt look good.. wearing one of my old baseball caps with a T-shirt and some capris. Not exactly what I would imagine as she was supposedly with OM today. I figured she would have makeup and her hair done.

I ask her how she is doing, responds "alright". THen she says, "look at you all dressed up". I kind of chuckled, told my D I love her and got back in my car.

I hope I got her thinking. SHe has gotten zero response from me in regards to OM. In the past, I would have BLOWN A GASKET if this would have happened. So hopefully I have just completed my first 180.


Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07