omg. seriously, I would love to get your w and my h in a room and listen to who could come up with the biggest line of crap yet. they are so freaking clueless, or extraordinarily cruel, that they can say stuff like your wife did, about learning about herself. talk about a fog...the fact that she LIKES what she learned about herself is revolting.
yep, like lwb, I'd say you have learned a lot about yourself, too. but there are sure as shooting better ways of learning about inner strength and resolve than dealing with this.
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