hey, lwb! so glad you got out last night and had some fun. very sweet about your D. ya know what my h would have said if my d had said I looked pretty? he would have just said, "oh, really?" lol. so maybe its good that he at least follows up with that.
about the affair assumption, my h does the same thing. he thinks I'm dating/doing all sorts of stuff/etc. its something he actually wants me to do now, but months ago, when he was still here at home and we were working on things, he said to me that he wished I would have a fling just because he would feel better...kind of like a schoolyard fight I guess, you punch, I punch, its over, we both can go back to being friends. very strange, but it made sense to him. or maybe it was just more alien spew.
I'm sorry for all that your h has put you thru. I have no doubt you could do a bang up job supporting your girls and raising them on your own if you had to, but damn, I know well about not wanting to.
good luck with your talk with ow's h. I know that isn't going to be easy.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
