Boundaries are hard.... once you set them, you have to follow through them (at least the ones you communicate to yoru H). So yes, you need to figure out what you absolutely cannot live with and what you can live with. And there is your line in the sand.
Anyway, I'm glad you had a nice Thanksgiving and that you're feeling good about things with your H.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
