Good to hear from you...and thanks for checking in...I have been around...
As for your sitch...one bit of advice it there is no hurry...take it slow...let H lead...don't suggest because that can come back as a demand...if it is all his idea just go with it...but keep yourself prepared...I know my H was no where near ready to come home 7 months after he left...but then his crisis was really hard and deep...
Admitting the OW is a biggy...my H didn't/wouldn't admit it until I found hard proof and talked with her BF's H!...There was no denying it then...I wish he would have told me instead of lying to me and forcing me to prove he was lying...which he told me to do...when I found the airline confirmation of this trip and hotel receipt he said he changed his mind and didn't go...I told him I would find out the truth...he said go ahead and check up...see what you can find...I did find that he didn't use the hotel he paid for (OW's estranged H found out where he was staying so he didn't stay there!)...so I went to his cell phone and started calling numbers other than OW that were in her state...I found the person who picked him up the airport...unknowing that he was married and that he had abandoned his W and kids for OW who was his W's BF...he was furious and said his wife would be too...that he even thought the friendship would be ended...perhaps that is why OW ended the A...to keep the approval of her BF...a thought that doesn't really matter now...
I hope things continue well for you...just take it easy...
