So I had a great time over Thanksgiving with H's family! I had a couple rough times, but I got over them. Just with thoughts and such. Nothing happened to cause them. He did pretty much ignore me the whole time until last night. He saw me and my BIL goofing around tripping each other and such and he decided to join in. All day today, that's what he did. Trip me, push me, bump into me. It was very similar to a little boy in school with a girl he likes. He even sat on the couch with me while I was holding D and he had S in his lap and put his arm around the back of the couch and practically touching my shoulders. We had 2 people actually come in and give us a funny look. Like blantant funny looks, they actually would walk in the room, stop and look at us and stay there for a minute, then walk away.
I never pushed him, I didn't show him any affection, but I did tease back. I spent more time with his family than he did tho. When they weren't working on the roof, he either slept, watched tv or played video games. He played a few games of poker with us also.
Jarhead, it's funny actually, because he did in fact ask me for a quickie! I told him, yeah, meet me in the bathroom. He asked what was up with the smart a** comment, I told him I wasn't going to do that. He asked why and I told him I explained that before.
As soon as we got in the van to leave, he started in with, it was a good thing he stopped working at 11 so we could leave early. He had told me he wanted to leave early because he had stuff he needed to get done for work. I told him, he was playing around just as much as I was. And I told him I had a good weekend, and he wasn't going to start messing it up. So he brought up later asking how we were going to do taxes this year. I asked him what he meant and he asked if he would claim one of the kids and I would claim the other. So I again told him, this was something we could talk about later, I don't want to ruin my good weekend with talking about that stuff. So we enjoyed the rest of the trip playing the Letter game and stuff. Then when we got home, he started flipping out because the neighbors had left the dogs out of their crate. I calmly told him it was ok, I had told them to do that during the day and crate at night. A little while later, I told him, thank you for inviting me and that I had a good time this weekend. He said he had fun too. After a while, he went to leave and said he would call me later.
Also a commercial came on in the car on the ride back and it was talking about your marriage and if you have problems with it and blahblahblah, even infidelity and such, call this number and they would send us their 12 cd program on how to improve or better your marriage. At the end of the commercial, he handed me his phone and I looked at it and didn't understand what he meant. So I asked him what he meant, did he want me to call the number or something? And he said, yeah! then said, it was a joke. I told him, I would be willing to, if he was ready. But he wasn't ready. and left it at that. He didn't say anything for a while, then we played the Letter game.
Hope everyone had a great thanksgiving!

Last edited by Julz13; 11/26/07 12:14 AM.

Me- 29
X - 30
M - 7.5 years
Final April 2009
S - 2005
D - 2007


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