Treese, I think that is a common comment from anyone who is having an affair. They don't really want us to have someone else except for two reasons: to ease their own guilt and to direct our attention elsewhere. I have read the comments of many other posters that have said that their spouses usually are not too happy when the LBS does start to date.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God