Hurtin.. not sure I agree with you on this one. This is not about you and it's not about her. It's ALL ABOUT YOUR DAUGHTER. She does not deserve to be subjected to that. Think about it this way.. would you and your W subject her to that while you were together? Heck no.. that's sick and depraved.

I agree you need to keep a calm tone about it though. A simple "D told me you kept her up all night.. I think it would be best if in the future you either wait till I have her, or be a little more careful about exposing her to that... Thanks"

You know? I would be very curious as to how that would be viewed in a custody hearing. I'm not suggesting anything, but there are lines that need to be drawn and that's one.

Trust me.. if either of my D's encounter something like that, W, OM, W's parents, my L will all know about it quicker than you can say "Huh?"

They are fragile enough as it is.. then that crap. Good lord.