Thanks Jar... appreciate it. Does your wife still think you are out meeting other girls? So many times Ive seen people come running back once the betrayed spouse starts to move on. It worked in my sitch when I met a girl and started dating her (I was ceratin that my W wasnt coming back) even though I never told W about my new flame, she could sense it and came running back. Its funny how the people we love can "feel" when someone else is present.
I definately felt another persons presence right about the time my W started dating OM. Just goes to show that if we truly detach and arent faking our detachment in hopes it will bring the spouse back, they seem to definately notice.
Now..Im not suggesting you go date someone, that would be bad. Im suggesting you truly detach for you, trust me she will notice.
Easier said than done, I know. If only I could take my own advice.
H4C
Hurtin: 32 WAW: 30 D: 8 Bomb: 10/05 Sep: 12/05 Back together 8/07 Bomb (OM): 11/07 Filed for D (me): 12/07