Input, WH and I own business together

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At times she looked like she was thinking about then said she just wants out that I can't change. She said she thinks any changes I make won't last.

I'm thinking of doing the coaching,
Mike [/quote]

Mike,
Try coaching don't give up yet. My H said the same thing to me "Can't change or if you change can't last" People can change if they want to and so will you! H went through tons of C for child abuse and really got his arm around the damage and how he dealt with it all. C help him find better ways, he did. So people can change, just like DR tells us.
I beleive I'd try coaching to. At this point it's a real life raft for you. Have you ask W to hold off D for a year till you can at least come to terms with all of this? What do your children say to you about all of this?
Mike I have the ear rememdy formula for your dog. If you do not mind emailing me private I can then email back to you. My email should be on open file for you.
Fish, WoW raising those fish sounds awesome. Poor guppies! do silver dollar fish eat meat?
If I ever have any angel fish pairs I'll be sure and add a feeder guppy.
so what became of all the tanks and the 80 gal one? the 80 sounds wonderful and I bet if one had a large room could really be worked in nicely. I always wanted a fish tank wall. You know the tanks are really in wall of a closet so you can manage from back of tanks. The wall faces out into a room. when i was growing up there was a friend across road and her dad had built a tank wall. They had 4 or 5 tanks in the wall. Really awesome to see. just beautiful.
Well enjoy the football game. wish i new how to help with W. Remember my H said the same thing and now has sent me a gift.
the gift opens a whole new issue . IS it an effort for R and US or is it an effort for H, OW and Me to be "best friends" as H puts it? So this gift issue has just left me for the entire weekend in deep deep depression. Now I'm going to have to tell him don't send me another gift as long as he isn't interested in our M. I believe if I were able to work and support myself I might even file myself. H walked away on 10-3-06. so it has been a long time now. Yet I know if I do file, H even if he wants to will not fight for R, comes from his child abuse. So I have to be so careful not to make a wrong move.
Hang in there consider the coach try. Only have a few hundred to loose.lol