As a virtual present for you, Dr. Mojo has decided to take on your case. WOW, I get the resident cow, monkey, lioness, bunky to look at my case. Just leave the swan, as I know them, in the pond. They are mean critters IRL when you get close to them. BB had 3 mean geese. Boy, can they pack a wollop!
I feel that I have valuable insight to offer in terms of diagnosis since I am currently dating a man who half reminds me of you and although I am semi-loath to admit it, I see some similar traits too.
BB has always half reminded me of me. Your description of her dating/petting behavior with you in your youth makes it clear that she is a natural "bunkey" sexually. BB was Way hotter than I was ever told about. Of course she was ready to get M a long time before I thought I could support her. GF’s some how get pregnant and become SAHM all to fast sometimes. I didn’t have the $$$ to pull that off when we met.
I wish I could have read the SSM forum before or when I was dating or first M to BB. I would have paid more attention to her and not worked as much. I was overly responsible most of my life.
First off, a very important question that will help me determine whether your case is terminal. If you were to become ill with some sort of dangerous fever-producing illness like Typhoid and you were rendered unable to do or even think about any of your usual uber-responsible Lou things, do you believe that BB would take care of you? Yes!
IMPORTANT NOTE: By taking care of you, I mean do her best in her own way to nurse you back to health. I do NOT mean do things the way you would. For instance, she gets points for buying you the electrolyte drink that she thinks tastes better rather than the one that costs less. Yes again. Taste, comfort, easy, are her things.
Nurse BB would remind me to drink, pet the dogs, and ask me what my urine output was. Input/output, It’s a nurse thing.
When I was in the hospital and had back surgery it was; how do you feel, pulse and respiration- blood pressure check, how much did you drink, and how much pee was in the urinal. Almost humiliating, but I know why.
No nookie for BD so far. I will go for it to night.
