I don't want my H if he wants someone else also, I just couldn't.
I am right there TAL, right there. It took me awhile. If I feel myself being pulled towards H, (I am always attracted to him), then I just look at his phone, think of OW, the lies, whatever it takes to remind me that this is NOT my H.
I have no idea what your wife is trying to do, asking for kisses and attention from you. I just don't know what to tell you, advice-wise, since we are all in different situations.
