So I don't want you to take this the wrong way and Ive been putting off writing to you because Your w's actions are just so totally crazy.
Please don't get sucked in to the kiss or ILY thing. This gives her hope that even though she's with the om that you will stick around. Im again not saying to be mean, but you need to state that as far as her and you go that until she has made a descion of who she wants there will be no kissing. I don't understand that whole thing.
Husband read a book called know more mr. nice guy.. you may want to ask him about it, I think it does apply to you.
She is really playing head games. We want our spouses to want us, but just my opinion, I don't want my H if he wants someone else also, I just couldn't.
Think about it.
I know its hard but she also seems a bit immature.. I could be wrong here...
tal
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