lwb - Good for you going out last night. Look at it this way.. he chose this scenario.. not you. Don't worry about what he's missing out on.. he chose it.

I agree with the others.. guilt and fear. I had read somewhere where trust issues have to deal with guilt. They are basically afraid you will do the same that they have done.

Makes me wonder, my W NEVER trusted me. Even though I never gave her a reason not to.

Hugs to you!!