Thanks tal. When he says these things, he isn't trying to start a fight, just stating facts. Its odd, because he is so sure of what he thinks/believes.
Thanks for the hugs too, I'll always take those.
PS: I said to H the other night "For all I know, you are done with OW, and are sleeping with other women." and he said "Oh so now I'm an a$$hole and a whore?". Fool.