He doesn't trust me at all, which I don't deserve, but I think it comes from the guilt. He has said "I never thought I would be this person, so who's to say you won't do it back to me".
See LWB,
this is where my problem is. My W told me the same thing about not beliving she could be the person to do something like this.
But the differance is my W trusts me too much. I think this is where all of our problems come togeather. It's the fact that I was married and I was happy and had no worries. I thought this was "forever". If I knew that I had a chance of losing my W BEFORE this happened Things would have been differant. Now My W trust me to wait for her to decide. everytime I talk to her about our R this lets her know she still has time.I think possibly a in a good marriage you need to have a little non trust. It keeps you working on your R
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
