Sun, I wanted to check on you and make sure you are okay.
I have to agree w/Breton on how to react to his constant threats. The only way to diffuse this little ticking bomb is to acknowledge his comments in a very calm manner. If he is going to leave, he will.
Sometimes I sit back and wonder if the reason they are constantly threatening to leave is for us to get disgusted enough to show them the door. They don't have enough courage to do it on their own, so they continue to push and push until we say go. I know that in my case, that's why my ex did, but like I said before, the weight of the stress and the unexpected was lifted from my shoulders the day he walked out. He was so unpredictable w/his anger and mood swings. I'm sure you are facing the same thing, just as everyone here has witnessed.
How is work going? How are you doing? How's the foot doing? When will the cast come off?
Sun, we are all very concerned about you and your situation. We are all hoping that he will find a way to diffuse his anger w/o harming you in any way. I wish that there was a way to go inside his head and figure out what is driving his train right now. He's been at this little replay antic for a while and it's time for him to step it up a notch and do something different.
I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
