I am sorry that you are so sad. Getting through this is not going to be easy, but you are doing the right thing. The hurt doesn't go away that fast, and yes she is hurting too, but it is wonderful that she is even spending time with your family, that's great and a definate plus.
Time, time, time.. that's what it will take and patience.
I am so glad that you are determine to win her back, don't get discouraged, rome wasn't built in a day, so this too will take a distance to run its course.
Don't push, but stay near and show her what kind of man you can be. Keep up with the dbing. and great that you have appts with them.. your on the right track.
Take care.
tal
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
