Treese Ur sitch could be my sitch. Right down to the going out at 5pm and not being home at 6am. In my case he went to work at 6am and only came home for an hour at 10pm to get showered. He then re-emerged at 6am, very drunk the following morning.
What I meant by significant events in or around June was this: did something major happen in his life about that time? e.g. did a parent die, did he miss out on a promotion. If so there's your trigger. If you're like me there won't be a trigger that you recognise and that makes it harder. Two years on and i still don't know exactly why my H left.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15