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[Treese]

Hi Cag;

It is 6am and my H left yesterday to play cards with his buddies(at 5 pm) I have not heard from him. I don't even know who this guy is. Although I believe he went to OW home to spend the evening and then probably fell asleep. I have not received any phone calls or anything. I dont know if he's dead or alive. I just think it is so disrespectful after all these years of being together. I am so afraid of that very same thing you experienced. We talked about separating for a while and see what happens. I'm afraid he won't come home, ever.
I guess I'm still in shock, since January when the OW husband showed up at my door to tell me what my H should have told me. He even warned my H that if he didn't tell me he would. I was humiliated. My H didn't seem to care, just kept saying her H was psycho. I said, "He's not so psycho, he put a tracking system on her car", then he continued telling me how she went back to school to get her degree. i said, "I DON'T CARE". They are carrying on a relationship. Where it is right now I don't know. He says he's not in love but heck he's lost anyway.

The only thing I have been asking him for is respect and honesty. He lies so much and I know when he is. He doesn't answer his phone, not even when his daughter or son call him. I don't call anymore, he won't answer me anyway. I'm trying not to care and ignoring him but he likes it. He would rather not talk to me. Sucks!!!! I want him to feel this pain. Will they ever?

Treese