PS: we have even talked to the children, announced our intention to D to the 4 children! Oh how heartbreaking this is to me! But I agreed to do it anyway. This was me detaching. I hate divorce, but she stated very clearly (multiple times) that she is filing. So I stopped pushing back, and decided to let her go. She was clear and definite. I suggested we tell the children, she agreed, and so we sat down and did it. Actually I did all the talking; she clammed up and said almost nothing. That was 3 weeks ago. Still no papers. Who knows what she is waiting for?
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
