Thanks for the advice, tried a bit this week and it actually worked out, I think. W was taken aback by my "attitude". Don't get me wrong I didn't overdue anything just lashed a bit. I ended up spending thanksgiving with my w's family. I showed up late, because I had to pick up my sis at the airport. The night went well and even had sil and bf back to "our" place for games afterward. W threw me off on thanksgiving morning by being lovey dovey and making comments about how good looking I am, etc. At one point she came up behind me while I was on this site and "snuggled" and asked in a genuine way "what ya doin'". I was thrown off balance for a bit, but think took things in stride. W has actually stayed home for a couple of days, but went through a bought of text's last night while we were watching a movie, assuming OM. Don't ask don't tell, so who really knows. This is a boundary being broken, but I just played it off and hung with ss. Today we went seperate ways with family get togethers, I had a blast at mine. I really don't expect to see her much for the next few days, but sobeit. I find myself wanting for the days like thanksgiving to reappear, with the deep kisses and hugs and compliments. Don't expect them, but sure is nice. She is in pull back mode, so what do I do? I just keep sticking to the path I have been on and as soon as I can sell a couple of my horses to cut costs I have a great apartment lined up. In all reality I haven't been trying hard for this, never had to, but since the market is so saturated right now it is tough. All and all I am thankful for so much, I have found this holiday very refreshing.
