Thanks nephartiti, I really appreciate the words of encouragement. I feel like I'm doing all I can...but obviously I'm not seeing results. Sometimes I feel his anger is a negative reaction to my DB'ing, but other times I'm comforted by it in some strange way. What I mean is that it is so unreasonable...that the only explanation is "he is REALLY messed up". And there is comfort in knowing he is really messed up! Consistency is my goal...never been my strong suit (I am a Gemini), but I keep saying this my journey and opportunity for growth as much as it is his. J~
