Hey B, I don't think anyone would have been able to keep their poker face on in that situation. There is still a lot of positives in there and she obviously is feeling bad about the vibe she's giving off. 5 calls??
I can imagine how hard it must be to be in these situations and not reach out to her. When my H and I were still communicating in this way a couple weeks after the bomb that was my biggest challenge...unfortunately I hadn't found DB'ing at the time and I know I did a lot of damage.
She's still making plans with you and sounds like she's sharing mutually fun things like the guitar playing. Go with it...let it be on her terms. You're doing great! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
