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[cagzmom]

Lin will you help me?

I think i am leaving him alone - I think I am doing what I am suppose to.

I dont know where in the MLC my h is. The depression is obviouslly very very heavy right now. His suicide attempt in hte summer was the biggest eye openner. Since then it has been on and off - all depending on circumstances around him.

Please tell me what YOU DID right...my counselor believes that marriages can be saved..he knows of this db techniques and has seen them work.

What have I been doing right? I dont even know. I dont call, dont email and dont text. When he comes over to pickup D11 I am civil and nice- even offered to work with him outside of mediation so we could come up with an agreement to take to our lawyers.

I got an "im sorry for having all these issues and for hurting you..." email in October - late October. Since then nothing. he is in full throttle mode with the ow.

please help me.