T-Day wasn't that good W stayed distant. D's BF got his old job back, gave 2weeks notice to current employer and old job withdrew offer, now current job won't take him back. He left for Nashville about 7PM to meet cousin and work for him. Both D's drove him half way to meet his cousin. Left W and I alone, she'd fall asleep so I stayed to keep an eye on GS. Well I blew it. Told her I don't want a D, but I can't stop it if she wants it, that I always have & always will love her. I said I've been reading R books and see where I've made some mistakes, that I didn't like the man I was for the last year or so before she left, in fact I despised him. I want to leave the door open, if she wants to try we'll start from that point, learn from past mistakes but not dwell on them. At times she looked like she was thinking about then said she just wants out that I can't change. She said she thinks any changes I make won't last.
I'm thinking of doing the coaching, I know I haven't done too well on my own. GAL is hard to do when I'm recovering from surgery. W already served me, I meet with my Atty in a week. I will try to drag it out a little, but don't want to run up big atty bill.
I used 20 gal long tanks for breeding and getting breeding pairs, 10 as hatching and nursery, 29 gal tanks for raising to sales size. I also have a L-shaped show tank about 80 gal. It used to be in a pet store, the store moved into new building next store but by the lease tank had to stay in building. I knew the people who owned the building. They wanted to know if I wanted the tank, I said no, he was going to bust it up with a hammer, so I save it.
Angle fish look so graceful and swim so slow. To get them to lay eggs I would add feeder guppies, the water would churn from them going crazy to catch the guppies. I'd never seen them swim that fast!
Going to S26's house to watch UC football game.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26