Hey Luke, I am proud of you for taking a stand buddy.
I don't know about storms. Seems to me that your W may simply be trying to push you around some and knows which buttons to push with you.
My advise, stay strong, dont let her see absolutely anything bother you. Dont do jack [censored] for her unless you are already doing it for yourself. Let her sleep in the bed she made my friend.
I know that the hardest part in all this is you standing against your natural instincts to nurture and provide for her. That is the place where your focus needs to stay Luke, on staying strong and not caving to her insanity.
Keep being the wonderful man that you are and let her play all the games she wants. When its all said and done, you stood for a very very long time and should be very proud of how hard you have tried to save your marriage my friend.
