You are probably right Just and if so, it would be the same OM she has been dating since the divorce.
She recently called and offered the following. She said she was very confused and wasn't sure what she really wanted. The time spent with me brought back this confused state. She felt she needed to put some distance between us while she sorts things out. She went on to say she needed to work on herself, focusing primarily on her selfishess and her tendency to get upset when things don't go as she wants them to.
So all of the comfort and re-familiarization that we created over the summer can be debated as a good thing or a bad thing. After 2 years, she is still stuck in what appears to be the exact same place. I'm thankful I had 4-wheel drive and pulled out of that mud hole. The ride is alot smoother on pavement. :-)
