Need Help/ Suggestions - Part 2

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How true that last statement is. I know D will be tough for everyone involved but I look at my sitch and see how this is not any easier.

My W and I can not discuss anything serious. I ask her to respect the marriage and do some things that I ask but she blows me off. She will go out with our S and drag him to the things that she wants to do and she considers that quality time with him. She associates with a group of single people who spend their free time drinking. She says they are good people but how well do you know someone after 2 months. If they are the "good people" she says they are would nt they encourage her to work on her mariage instead of pulling her away?

The more I work on things and learn from DB'ing it shows me that maybe this is not meant to be for all of us to be happy. I hate the fact that my S will have his parents in seperate homes but at least I can provide the stability he wants and needs while she figures herself out.