If a man was a MAN and he COMPLETELY loved ME he would desire (broadly defined) to have sex with me or he would set me free. In other words, if you had a pet that was part monkey and you knew it was part monkey but you knew you weren't able/willing to let it out of the cage to play then if you really loved it you would know that was an unhealthy existence for a monkey and you would take it back to the jungle even though you would miss it and worry about it.
I just wanted to say that I loved the monkey analogy. Don't keep the monkey in the cage. The monkey needs love to.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
