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No advice, but I sure feel your frustration, Penny.

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Keep me posted on things. I'll be computer-less over the next few days with our guests staying in the office/guest room. You will be on my mind, though! Hope you get through Thanksgiving ok.

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Penny,
I wouldn't tell him how disappointed you are in him. It would just go in one ear and out the other. Right nothing is important to him except his own happiness. Not fair, but so true. I would love to come and give him a swift kick in the behind. All of our spouses need them!




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
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I know it wouldn't do any good....It is true he has everything he wants right now. He showed up Sunday at the house and visited and was pleasant. He visited with youngest s when he got there and then went to her house. Today he called and said he was just driving around and took me to lunch was pleasant and told me he was sorry about how he had taken all the motivation away from me in our marriage. He visited and talked about alot of things. He was real up. I asked if he still had plans for Thanksgiving and he said yes. He asked if we were going to my parents. GO figure.....She must have quite a draw or she sure has control of him which I thought I would never ever thought I would see......The best of both worlds....


Hope everyone has a Happy Thanksgiving....

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Happy Thanksgiving, Penny.

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Penny,
Sending lots of hugs your way. It hurts so bad to see them "happy".

Enjoy your Thanksgiving with your parents.




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I survived.....what about you?

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Survived!! My youngest S and i went to my parents. On the way down we stopped at an old friends house and had a drink or 2. It was fun we laughed and told stories. AT my parents pretty boring but as an only child theres not much excitement. As you know H had other plans on Thanks giving. Early Friday he calls me at my parents and wants to go to breakfast with S and I. We did he was MR pleasant I have no clue what is going on in his head. He acted like it was all ok. Am I in a different world or is he.

Hope everyone had a Happy Thanks giving. Now on to Christmas.

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Penny,
I'm glad that you had fun at the friend's house. He is definitely in a different world! He thinks throwing a tidbit of his attention to the boys every now and then make him father of the year, hmmm...sounds like someone else I know...




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