Mrs NOP Spouse's expressing love languages that aren't understood by the other spouse will often be viewed negatively and it will actually destroy love feelings:
Love expressed by sex & physical touch - "I'm nothing to you but a way to get your rocks off, you don't care for me at all as a person and you're always pawing me."
Love expressed by acts of service - "She fills her life with meaningless chores and would rather scrub the toilet than spend time with me."
Love expressed by affirmative words - "He's always trying to butter me up and saying bull$hit things that he doesn't mean."
Love expressed by quality time - "I can never get away from her, she follows me from room to room, wants me to sit next to her on the couch hour after hour and tries to control me every time I try to do something with my friends."
Love expressed by gifts - "He never talks to me and treats me like a prostitute he can buy with trinkets and widgets."
