I think changes have to be made WHILE LETTING GO. You can't change just to please your spouse. I tried. That didn't work. MK, it's like I've previously said, I don't want the angry, acid-filled person that is my W. right now either.
I guess we all want our spouses back, but don't want what we HAD. But that really may take two! I feel like a failure, because the should'a ,would'a ,could'a sometimes eats me alive. But you know what, my wife has some serious issues too. Read the old threads if you need some proof, but THAT GETS ME NOWHERE!
