I don't think you understand. I had not desires or feeling like this in the past. I am also not saying I want to have an affair. What I am saying Is I NOW feel like what Our spouses have said they were feeling.
I have no support from my wife I have no intamacy for my wife My Wife does not Hear me when I talk. I am making plans without my Wife in mind. and now I have learned that I do not need my Wife.
Ok...sorry. I guess it's different for me. I was feeling all of those things before H started his affair. I actually could have easily been the WAW. In my case, we were BOTH withdrawing from the marriage but in different ways.
