I think we also have to realize that the changes we are making are for us and not for our S. Otherwise we will always feel like failures because we are seeking approval from the S. Once we realize we are changing for the better as a person because we want to, not only that improves our PMA, the changes would last. Plus, we would know that we are a better and improved person and if the WAS can't see and appreciate that then it is their loss.

M: 31
W: 31
M: 7 T: 8
S:4 D:2
Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one
S on 9/2/07
W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.

My sitch:
http://tinyurl.com/3dqw93