Red--you bet we understand each other. I think you're right about just letting time work its wonders.
Phoenix--I appreciate your perspective and I'm pretty sure I can let it die...just hope H will.
Peaceful--I'm fuzzy on boundaries, but this one (having anything to do with OW) feels pretty natural to me. I need to work more on defining my boundaries, because it seems that when we hit one, it often falls in light of the choice presented: is this boundary worth throwing my M away for? So maybe I need to dig a bit deeper to find the truth behind my boundaries and come up with ideas on how to keep them firm. That makes little sense to me...hope it does to you.
Cat--MWAH! Thanks for being throwing in your 2 cents.
So, we've been home for a few days. We had a very nice Thanksgiving with my family, things with H are really good. My love to all of you--I hope the remainder of your weekend brings good things.
