ACJ Thanks I sure don't feel like I have my dignity intact today. Should have been able after all this time to use wiser words and put the ball in his court better.
I guess I left when I did for I made my point that he really did not care and by walking away then that is what he was left with. I was not angry, I was hurt by his actions. His inability to show that he cared.
I came right out and told him at one point that wasn't my being happy part of what he was suppose to give in the M? If I was unhappy then maybe he was unable to give me what I needed. That is when he told me he wished I had an A to be happy.
oh that just sends chills down my spin. Like if I did it he would have no problem with it now.. but believe me if I had there would be no forgiveness on his part he was one jealous man.
I could not talk to the Antique store "guys" or get a hug from one of them with out him glaring at me.
Should be still right now but I am fighting that this morning. I need to clarify a few things that we discussed.
part of me wants to tell him fine... you can have your freedom on my terms and the alimony part is not the only thing that needs to be agreed on. He did not discuss any of the terms,, nothing. he is so focused on the dollar amount of the alimony it is scary
the think this morning that has me upset is my d is right he is not the same person and I really saw that last night. I have not talked to him face to face about this D and he was vengeful. Mean and ruthless. This is not the man I married.
m24 yrs h 50 me 47 s 21 s 17 left 5-30-06, and 12-4-06 still gone.............
