well HB2 sounds like you have the poster child for MLC, the good news is in a bit he wont remember this conversation. he may well think he needs the D to be happy....only then will he find out he is responsible for his happiness. get a good L and let them handle all of that. thats their job. sucks but its what you have to do if he really is going to do it. that way you wont have to talk about it with him, the L does all the contact and negotiations. we are here for you!


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest