I don't update my thread much anymore, but still, I am around from time to time..
Things here are just about the same, we're friendly & talk fine. Wife has not mentioned Divorce since I told her to go & file, this was about 3 months ago.
Since my last post in here I have moved home & doing ok. Wife & OM are now selling his home for whatever reason, my guess is because W can't settle there, she did say something to me about this a few months ago.
A few things that surprised with W, was when she came to take the last things that are hers from the house...She made a point of taking her Wedding dress, this did shock me a little, also a lot of sentimental things that either I got her or things that mean something to the both of us.
Lots more have happened but way too much to write here....
I do continue to do what I can in this sitch but I am at piece with how it seems to be right now.