FWIW I don't think you screwed up at all. You said what was in your heart. I'm at the point where I'm not sure pussyfooting around them is doing either H or me good. In my opinion where you and I now find ourselves it is time for straight talking. You did just that and you left with your dignity intact when you could no longer bear to be there. Others may have a different opinion but that is mine.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
